Resonating with Social Relationships

When it is balanced, the summer season energy of Fire Element nurtures our social relationships creating a reservoir or capacitor of energy in the form of information shared, caring responses, shared activities and the social activities we initiate with others.  These could include phone calls to keep in touch, planned or spontaneous social activities or connecting via online social media.   How we blend our field of energy with others creates a magnetic field of resonance that can be very powerful for all involved.    The summer season may bring us more in touch with the quality of our social relationships.  You may be experiencing this as more backyard BBQ get-togethers, vacations with family or a few friends, or an increase in your Facebooking activity.   Notice how you feel energetically after social events and you will get an idea of where your field of energy needs more maintenance or not.

Over the summer months more than most, if our Fire Element energy is out of balance,  we may feel the outcomes of the imbalance in unpleasant ways.  The get-togethers are soured with unreasonable arguments, people are easily insulted or upset, there is an inclinations towards miscommunication as we don’t exactly say what we mean.    Online social media finds us being ‘unfollowed’ or ‘de-friended’ or we attract followers and friends who are not nice.  It get’s uglier when you consider that energetically what we are witnessing in others is our own unconscious projections of our negative or non-coherent patterns.   We are seeing something annoying in others that we may fail to recognize is really within ourselves and consequently avoid ways to clear the imbalance.  Too bad because the mirroring of our patterns in others gives us an opportunity to transform and grow if we are up for it.   

Ah the summer season – more than just mosquitos are requiring our attention!  It is a good time to nurture your relationships, pay attention to the patterns within you being played out in others, and make some changes.    Creating and cultivating a network of support and friends helps us to become more of ourselves, feel connected and expanded especially if we use our relationship energetics to transform and grow.  When we engage and nurture our social relationships over the summer months, nature puts the magnetic resonance created into our energy bank and stores it for the fall and winter of our lives so that we have reserves of energy to draw on when social activities may be reduced or in hibernation.

Here are 3 affirmations to contemplate and energize your Fire Element from the Repatterning system:

• I enjoy being with people and also being alone
• I sustain many friendships over time
• I am at ease in social situations

3  healing modalities you can do for yourself to energize your fire element are:

• dance with others… and smile
• tell funny stories (to a willing audience) Or share …. here is  a link to some of my favorite social media cartoons by auther Rob Cottingham
  http://www.robcottingham.ca/cartoon/greatest-hits-twitter/
• read poetry OR dabble in writing your own

So notice your energy and patterns this week as you pursue the gift of your social relationships.

With love and light,

Carolyn