The Revenge Pattern – you remember this pattern from childhood or at best as a popular plot line in a good murder mystery novel/tv show. Someone does something to you, you react and are angry and mad. The anger simmers on a low flame because there has been no closure or apology or making amends. The longer this anger festers, the more you start activating the pattern called REVENGE or “I will get you back”. From my career in early childhood education I remember that phrase as a popular one for children ages 6-9 as they learn the popular office strategy of tit for tat. “You did it to me” so I will do something equally bad (or slightly worse to show you!) back at you. Ugh! The pattern gets your heart pounding, even if your plans are only executed in your imagination. It could be a situation as fleeting as a road rage moment or as long term as a generational family feud. In all cases, revenge is an energy pattern that destroys dreams, big intentions or goals. When invoked the REVENGE pattern blocks manifestation of what we truly want or makes it more difficult to attain. If unresolved we constantly think revenge in the present when it’s likely something long ago that is still hurting inside.
Revenge is part of the lower left quadrant of my present moment awareness map for healing. (from Mastering MY Present Moment Project). If your energy is tied up here you may also be very unaware of the underlying patterns generating your current unhappy experiences. Your ability to move forward and heal is reduced by an inability to forgive or love unconditionally.
What revenge patterns are lurking in your life? Who do you need to forgive or confront with the real issue? What challenge do you face with the REVENGE pattern? How much energy is left over for creating what you truly want? Think about your big life vision intention statement, your goals or resolutions, or what you are trying to achieve in life. When the REVENGE pattern is invoked our present moment awareness power is not nearly enough to manifest those goals or dreams.
If you would like to change your energy pattern to support the manifestation of your big goal or project, consider joining Mastering MY Present Moment Project which begins January 31st for 15 online sessions using the Resonance Repatterning system. Clear the revenge and other destructive invisible patterns in your energy field that are holding you back.
With light and love
Carolyn
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