Family patterns – do you ‘take’ your parents?

In the resonance repatterning versions of family constellation work (aka Bert Hellinger) there are a number of energy concepts to wrap your mind around in order to benefit from the profound shifts and healings possible with this work. One concept is called ‘taking our parents’ and while I can best understand it with the word ‘accepting’…

The invisible block of systemic loyalties

A fascinating pattern that I have been working on within myself and with all the participants in my Ancestral Echoes program is one called systemic loyalties.  This is a pattern, usually non coherent that we maintain in order to show our love and loyalty either to our family system in general or a particular member in…